JESSICA Alba says the best thing about being famous is, making lots of money has made me happy. No one else helped me - Ive done this all by myself, on my own terms, she said. My dads also turned his real-estate business around and doing really well, and my brother acts, models and does mortgages, so weve all come up in the world. Anyone out there who gets bullied should realise that they can take control of their lives and succeed. Speaking to the UKs Scarlet magazine, Alba - who stars in the brilliant new movie Valentines Day - opened up about a number of different subjects, including her perfect man. I go for a shy, nerdy type of guy, and I always prefer older men, said Alba, who raises daughter Honour with husband Cash Warren. Im pretty wary of really good-looking guys and actually, as an actress, you work with so many men, you become completely immune. Deep down its probably because they were always the ones who ignored me when I was younger. SS