SELENA Gomez doesnt like going out on dates. The 18-year-old singer/actress admits she hates having to meet potential boyfriends for the first time. I dont actually like dates. I get awkward as I never know what to do, she said. The best thing is to be very open and dont shut yourself off, she added to OK. Enjoy being young. Gomez recently revealed she wants to duet with Cheryl Cole. Im so a massive fan of Cheryl, she said. I want to be her best friend I love everything about her. Shes my role model. It would be my dream to collaborate with her. Showbiz Spy